Three decades after the war in Bosnia and Herzegovina, families continue to search for the remains of teenage soldiers who went missing during the conflict. The emotional toll of these unresolved cases remains heavy, as loved ones seek closure and answers about their lost children.
Key Takeaways
- Many families are still searching for teenage soldiers missing since the 1992-95 war.
- The lack of official data complicates the search for these individuals.
- Emotional stories highlight the personal impact of the war on families.
The Ongoing Search for Closure
Badema Delic, frail and nearly unable to speak, clings to a photograph of her son, Ismet, who disappeared at the age of 16 during the war. Her son volunteered to join the Bosnian government forces and was captured by the Serb Army during a mission. Despite numerous leads about his possible whereabouts, the family has yet to find his remains.
Nihad, Ismet’s older brother, recalls their close bond and the pain of not knowing his brother’s fate. "We are still in the dark. He’s gone and yet without a resting place or funeral," he laments, expressing the deep emotional scars left by the war.
The Impact on Families
The search for missing teenage soldiers is not an isolated case. Elvedin Avdibegovic, another teenager who went missing at 16, is also on the list of the missing. His mother, Zekija, has spent over three decades searching for him and her husband, who were taken away together.
Zekija recalls their last conversation, where Elvedin expressed his desire to return home to cut the grass. "He was very hardworking," she remembers, highlighting the normalcy of their lives before the war disrupted everything.
The Numbers Behind the Tragedy
While there is no comprehensive data on the number of minors who fought in the war, estimates suggest that over 200 minors were involved in the conflict in Sarajevo alone, with around 50 losing their lives. The Veterans’ Association has compiled lists of these young soldiers, but the numbers remain uncertain.
- Estimated Minors Involved in the War: 200+ in Sarajevo
- Estimated Minors Killed: 50 in Sarajevo
- Total Minors Killed in Republika Srpska: 78
The Need for Recognition
The Ministry of Veterans’ Affairs has not provided clear data on the number of minors who participated in the war or those who were killed. This lack of transparency adds to the frustration of families seeking answers.
Rusmir Piralic, president of the Veterans’ Association, emphasizes that many minors joined voluntarily, driven by the need to defend their homes. He notes that while some served in combat roles, others were involved in logistics or support tasks.
A Call for Reconciliation
The emotional scars of the war extend beyond the search for missing individuals. Many former child soldiers, now adults, are working to promote peace and reconciliation in Bosnia. Projects like "Children of War – Children of Peace" aim to educate young people about the impact of conflict and the importance of mutual trust.
Robert Maric, a former soldier, reflects on the challenges of building bridges between communities. "It’s easy to make a building, whatever the cost. The most difficult thing is to build bridges between people, because blood was spilled," he states, underscoring the ongoing need for healing in the region.
As families continue their search for closure, the stories of these missing teenage soldiers serve as a poignant reminder of the war’s lasting impact on individuals and communities in Bosnia and Herzegovina.
